Twin Flames = Toxic Relationships? My Personal Take

Hello everyone! It's been a while since I’ve made a video. I admit, I’m not always consistent, and sometimes I feel like I don’t have enough content to share.

But in reality, we all have a unique message to share, and if we don’t allow ourselves to express it, who will benefit from it?

Today, I wanted to give an update on my relationship. It’s been 8 years since I’ve been with my man, my soulmate, and I can say that we’re still just as in love. Our relationship is a beautiful partnership, a real teamwork, and even though we’ve had our son for 4 years now and don’t have as much time for each other, our connection remains strong. I can confidently say that this is the most beautiful relationship of my life, and that in itself is a huge success.

I’ve often seen people talk about their twin flame relationships, then disappear without giving updates, and I didn’t want to be like that. To me, a twin flame is someone who helps us grow, elevate ourselves, and become the best version of ourselves. It’s not a perfect relationship, but it pushes us to surpass ourselves.

I often see discussions about toxic relationships, and it really bothers me. Because in my eyes, a relationship, whether it’s with a twin flame or not, should never be toxic. Yes, adversity helps us evolve, but there are so many healthy ways to evolve without letting a relationship tear us down. When a relationship becomes toxic, it’s a sign that it’s no longer aligned with our truth. It’s time to step away to protect our light.

I won’t lie, every relationship requires work and attention. We have to nourish the relationship, but also ourselves. The flame of love may flicker at times, but it never disappears. In my case, even though my relationship isn’t yet at 100% of what I want it to be, it’s already beautiful, healthy, and solid. I’m fulfilled, even though it’s not perfect, because after all, nothing is 100% perfect all of the time.

I know that sometimes people expect certain "signs" of what a twin flame should be, but every journey is unique. I see many people getting lost in unrealistic expectations and ending up in relationships that don’t elevate them. But it’s important to remember that love and spiritual connection don’t have to be complicated. It should be natural, simple, and aligned.

What I want to tell you today is that we all have a light to shine. Never let a relationship that diminishes you take over. We all deserve a relationship that nourishes us, helps us grow, and above all, respects our essence. Self-love is the foundation of everything. When we love ourselves, we attract a relationship that reflects that respect and love.

If you’re going through tough times, remember that you have everything inside of you to move forward and create a life aligned with your truth. Never let anyone or anything dim your light.

WE NEED YOUR LIGHT!

So keep shining, loving, and respecting yourself 🌟

Lisa

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